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and I'm back... :(

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So yesterday I had some spotting, I called my dr and they had me come in that afternoon (my scheduled appt was for today). My dr couldn't see anything during the u/s, so she had me go to a radiology place in town, that has a much better u/s machine, where they confirmed I have an ectopic pregnancy. It's in my left tube. Oddly enough, I wasn't having any pain, or any other signs.

She told me to go right to the ER so they could run some tests to make sure I was a candidate for the shot of Methotrexate. Due to my HCG levels (12000), I have to have another dose on Sunday.

So, although I'll be TTA for awhile, will you ladies have me back?

BFP #1 11/27/11 EDD 08/08/12 M/C 01/27/12 12 wks 2 days
BFP #2 04/25/12 EDD 01/04/13(?) confirmed ectopic 05/16/12 6 wks 5 days 2 doses of MTX-Lost left tube on 05/25/12 Back to TTC, earlier than originally expected.
BFP #3 01/05/13 EDD 09/17/13 u/s 1/24/13-great appt, measuring 2 days ahead, NT scan 3/11/13-great scan measuring 4 days ahead, A/S 4/29/13-another great scan can't wait to meet my baby BOY!!!!!
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  • KDS1987KDS1987 member
    I am so sorry for your loss. There are plenty of ladies that are TTA so of course you are welcome back here. Sending you tons of prayers for comfort and peace through this time.
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  • LSzwayaLSzwaya member
    I am SO SO sorry for your loss and that you find yourself back here. ((Hugs))
    MC 4/09 at 6w2d 
    Rainbow Jude 
    born: 12/31/09
    Pre-E Induction at 36w4d
    11 Day NICU stay due to GBS infection

    TTC#2 10/2010
    M/C: 4/09/11 5w
    CP: 12/26/2011 
    CP: 1/28/2012 
    MMC: 4/16/2012 at 11w2d 
    Ectopic: 6/25/2012 MTX 07/03/12
    CP 11/24/2012 
    Rainbow Violet 
    born: 9/11/13

    All ALers welcome! 
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  • delinodelino member
    Oh no! I'm so so sorry. I hate that anyone has to go through this. Please be careful...ectopics are so scary. I'm here if there's anything I can help with or answer any questions you may have.
    3 ectopic pregnancies (EDD's 1/30/12-tube removed, 6/2/12-methotrexate and 10/2/12-methotrexate)
    IVF and Natural FET resulted in BFN's and a hole in our wallets
    Natural BFP #4 on 9/7/12 gave us our miracle on 5/18/13
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  • Bizzy80Bizzy80 member
    Oh I am so sorry (((BIG HUGS)))
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  • LaTi07LaTi07 member
    I'm so sorry! Big (hugs)

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    ♥BFP #1 "Spawn"- 02/23/11 | EDD: 11/01/11 | natural m/c 03/20/11 @7w5d♥
    ♥BFP #2 "Offspring"- 11/10/12 | EDD: 07/25/13 | incomplete m/c 12/14/12 @8w1d | D&C 12/21/12♥
    ♥BFP #3 "Progeny" - 02/16/15 | It's a BOY!! | EDD: 10/17/15 | BD: 10/23/15♥
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  • VikingQueenVikingQueen member
    I'm so sorry for your loss.. ((hugs))
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  • mom22labsmom22labs member

    I am so sorry you are back here :( 

    BFP #1 10/05/10 (EDD 6/10/11) , natural m/c 11/24/10 BFP #2 1/20/12 (EDD 9/20/12) , natural m/c 3/3/12 BFP #3 10/09/12 (EDD 6/20/12), hoping third times a charm
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  • krisztina33krisztina33

    So sorry you are back and that you are going through that :(

    I'm TTA right now so PM me if you ever want to talk about non TTC stuff :)

    <<hugs>>

    TTC #1 since November 2011
    ** BFP #1 - M/C at 6 weeks 4/13/2012 **
    ** BFP #2 - expecting a little leprechaun!! EDD 3/21/13 | HB 7/30/2012 (6w3d) **
    NT Scan 9/4 - looked great! | Grow, baby, grow!!! | A/S 10/29

    ***All AL always welcome***
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  • dtowngirldtowngirl
    I'm so sorry you have to be here again :(.
    BabyFruit Ticker BFP #1 - 1-25-2012. Missed M/C discovered at 9 weeks 3 days. D&C 3-9-2012

    BFP #2 - 10-11-2012 Beta 38, 10-15-2012 Beta 518!.
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  • ella.mabelella.mabel member
    That totally blows. Sorry you had to come back.  ((hugs))
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  • smcjmk09smcjmk09 member
    I'm so terribly sorry for your loss and for all you're having to go through :(
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  • andreagbandreagb
    I'm so sorry you find yourself back here...but we're here for ya
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  • RickandTriciaRickandTricia member
    I'm so sorry for your loss.
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  • HopingforChangeHopingforChange member
    I am so sorry.  We are glad to support you, but sorry you need to be here.
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  • Mmm79Mmm79 member
    I am so sorry you find yourself back here.  We are here for you.  Many of us are still in the TTA period following a m/c, so you will be in good company. ((Hugs))

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    BFP#1 11/12/11 ~ No heartbeat 12/12/11 ~ D&C 12/19/11
    BFP#2 3/25/12 ~ Heartbeat 141 4/16/12 ~ No heartbeat 4/25/12 ~ D&C 04/30/12 
    BFP#3 7/16/12 ~ EDD 3/26/13 ~ It's a BOY ~ DOB 2/26/13






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  • foxxy1foxxy1 member
    I'm so so sorry, hun. *hugs*
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  • shellycoshellyco member
    I'm so sorry for your loss.  (HUGS)
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  • QuigleyCat1QuigleyCat1 member
    Oh dear, I'm so sorry you have to be here again.  HUGS and of course you're welcome back.

    Lilypie - (dLe1)

     

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           We let him go to Heaven on 4-27-13 at 17 weeks 1 day***

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  • sammer818sammer818 member
    I'm so sorry you had to come back, but we'll welcome you with open arms.

    TTC since April 2010
    BFP #1 – March 2011, missed m/c April 2011
    BFP #2 – October 2011, m/c November 2011
    Surprise BFP #3 – December 2011, diagnosed as cornual, terminated January 2012
    BFP #4 – June 2012, m/c July 2012
    Diagnosed with bicornuate ute and MTHR gene mutation
    BFP #5 – October 2012, missed m/c November 2012
    BFP #6 – January 2013, m/c March 2013
    No longer TTC. Diagnosis: Hostile ute. Heartbroken and bitter. Pursuing surrogacy.
    June 2013 - Carrier found! Could this really happen?!
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  • GatorBaby2012GatorBaby2012
    I'm so sorry. ((hugs))
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  • ct103ct103 member

    I am so sorry for your loss. We're here for you for whatever you need. Big, enormous hugs to you.

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  • panacea05panacea05 member
    Nothing I hate more than having to welcome somebody back here. I'm so sorry. ((hugs))
    It was a rough road, but Arlo Daniel was born April 1, 2013—and our second rainbow is due October 12, 2014.
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  • big_noisebig_noise member
    I'm so sorry. Sending some hugs your way.
    BFP #1, 12/22/09 - DD#1 born 9/2010
    BFP #2, 12/12/11, m/c 12/25/11
    BFP #3, 3/09/12, CP 3/10/12
    BFP #4, 7/22/12, DD#2 born 4/2013
     

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  • bananersbananers member
    I'm so sorry you have to come back. Life just isn't fair. ((big hugs))
    BFP #1 10/6/11 | EDD 6/15/12 | MMC 11/7/11 @ 8w3d | D&C 11/14/11

    BFP #2 8/22/12 | EDD 5/5/13 | DS1 born 5/9/13

    BFP #3 4/25/15 | EDD 1/7/16 | MMC 7/2/15 @ 13w1d | D&E 7/8/15

    BFP #4 12/9/15 | EDD 8/22/16 | DS2 born 5/18/16 at 26w2d

    Just keep swimming.
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  • KacyChicagoKacyChicago member

    I am so very sorry you are having to go through this, and hate that it's ectopic. I am sorry for your loss, and hope you find peace in the coming weeks.

    Thinking of you.

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    We lost our first (EDD 07/23/12) after finding out at 12 weeks there was no longer a heartbeat. Our rainbow was born 05/22/13 and was worth all we went through.

    “So can you understand? Why I want a daughter while I’m still young? I wanna hold her hand and show her some beauty before all this damage is done. But if it’s too much to ask, it’s too much to ask … Then send me a son.” – Arcade Fire
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  • neesie3173neesie3173
    Sorry that you had to come back here. ((HUGS))
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  • funny bunnyfunny bunny member

    I am so sorry to welcome you back here! Sad

    I so wish you could stay at PAL. *Hugs* 

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    BFP#2:Apr.18.12 EDD:Dec.21.12 MC:May.1.12 (6WK3D)-D&C
    BFP#3:Sep.12.12 - Suspected CP | BFP#4:Dec.1.12 - Suspected CP
    BFP#5: Dec.26.12 EDD:Sep.10.13 MC:Jan.7.13 (4WK6D)-Natural
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  • kwilson158kwilson158
    So very sorry about your loss...T&P coming your way...
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  • shanrobshanrob member
    I am so sorry.  Finger crossed that the methotrexate works for you.  Big hugs.
    BFP #1 - Chemical Pregnancy ----BFP#2 - DD born at 32 weeks-----BFP #3 Spontaneous Identical Twin Boys lost due to Missed M/C - on 7/1/11----BFP #4 Baby girl lost due to Trisomy 22 on 1/6/12 PGAL and PAL Always Welcome! Image and video hosting by TinyPic
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  • csspencercsspencer member
    Thanks everyone...Sucks, but at least I have a great group of women to support me.
    BFP #1 11/27/11 EDD 08/08/12 M/C 01/27/12 12 wks 2 days
    BFP #2 04/25/12 EDD 01/04/13(?) confirmed ectopic 05/16/12 6 wks 5 days 2 doses of MTX-Lost left tube on 05/25/12 Back to TTC, earlier than originally expected.
    BFP #3 01/05/13 EDD 09/17/13 u/s 1/24/13-great appt, measuring 2 days ahead, NT scan 3/11/13-great scan measuring 4 days ahead, A/S 4/29/13-another great scan can't wait to meet my baby BOY!!!!!
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  • raashtonraashton member
    I am so very sorry that you are back here. 
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  • gravytrain225gravytrain225 member
    I am so so sorry for your losses.
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  • AtleighdanAtleighdan member
    I am so sorry you find yourself back here. Big (((hugs))) to you.
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  • DaisyZHDaisyZH member
    I am so, so sorry for your loss Sad


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  • egsquaredegsquared member
    I'm so so sorry you have to come back here. ((hugs))
    TTC #1 since 6/08. Cycle #6 - BFP 12/22/08, EDD 9/3/09, DD 8/14/09 at 37w1d
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    me=36 - low AMH, DH=38
    BFP #2 - 8/31/11, EDD 5/10/12, M/C 9/23/11
    BFP #3 - 3/4/12, EDD 11/14/12, CP 3/11/12
    BFP #4 - 5/9/12, EDD 1/19/13, CP 5/11/12
    BFP #5 - 8/22/12, EDD 5/5/13, CP 8/24/12
    IVF#1 - January 2013 - EPP/Antagonist - 7R, 3M, 2F, 3dt of 2 8-cell embies
    BFP #6 - 2/3/13, EDD 10/15/13, DS 9/18/13 at 36w1d
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  • behapy2daybehapy2day
    I am so sorry you have to come back here. HUGS!

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  • s.alaries.alarie member
    I'm so very sorry that you find yourself back here. Big (((hugs))) to you and YH during such a difficult time.

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  • jinxycat24jinxycat24
    I'm so so sorry. (((big hugs)))
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  • ktsnshnktsnshn
    I am so sorry you have to come back and about the ectopic. Big, big ((hugs.))
    BFP#1 7/09 DS born 3/30/10 BFP#2 5/11 M/C 6/11 BFP#3 9/11 M/C 10/11 BFP #4 5/20/12 Pregnancy Ticker
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  • MissRachel621MissRachel621 member
    I'm so sorry you're going through this again.  It's not fair.
    BFP #1: 10.28.11 - Natural M/C: 12.9.11 @9w3d
    BFP #2: 1.30.12 - missed m/c found on 2.27.12 - D&C 3.1.12 @8w 
    BFP #3: 1.02.13 / EDD 8.31.13 / It's a boy!  - Baby Henry born 8.14.13
    BFP #4: 9.28.14 / EDD 5.27.15 / It's a girl! 

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